Kenyan Vlogger Lisa Gaitho has clarified her misquoted advice where she advised women to wash their men like she does her husband.
In a past video, Lisa had said that if need be, one should scrub their man as well.
In an interview on Chat Spot, Lisa now says that her words were taken out of context as she did not mean washing your man is an obligation which should be fulfilled.
‘PEOPLE ARE VERY HYPOCRITICAL.
IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE SOMETIMES YOU FIND YOURSELF WITH YOUR PARTNER IN THE SHOWER BECAUSE MAYBE YOU GUYS ARE RUNNING LATE.
OR YOU JUST WANTED TO TAKE A SHOWER TOGETHER, SO YOU HELP SCRUB PART HE CAN’T REACH AND YOU DO THE SAME FOR HIM.
MOST PEOPLE HAVE DONE THIS.
IT SAID IT NOT AS AN OBLIGATION BUT AS A SENSE OF LOVE LANGUAGE BECAUSE WE LOVE IT. EVERYONE HAS A SPOT THEY CAN’T REACH.
IT’S FUN TO BE ‘WASHED’ AND ONE ENJOYS IT.’ SHE SAID
In a past video, Lisa had stirred controversy with many thinking amekaliwa for washing her husband.
AT THE TIME SHE EVEN SUGGESTED THAT WOMEN SHOULD “WASH” AND “SCRUB” THEIR PARTNERS IF NEED BE.
“…IF IT IS ONE,, TWO OR THREE THINGS THAT I MUST DO TO MAKE HIM HAPPY AND MAKE HIM FEEL THAT HE NEEDS TO RECIPROCATE, GUESS WHAT… I WOULD DO THAT WHICH HE WANTS ME TO DO, AND I WOULD DO IT VERY, VERY WELL. FOR EXAMPLE, IF HE WANTS TO TAKE HIS BATH, GO AND WASH HIM, LITERALLY; SCRUB HIM, DO NOT LET HIM DO ANYTHING BY HIMSELF. WASH HIM, CLEAN HIS EARS… CLEAN HIS… [DO AS LIKE YOU WOULD TO A BABY. DRY HIM, APPLY BODY LOTION ON HIM, DRESS HIM,” SHE SAID IN A VIDEO UPLOADED TO HER YOUTUBE CHANNEL.
Ladies, would you wash your man?